why do ppl change????

relationships are the things that are born with us n are a part of our life, till death. u cannot say tht u r alone or tht u dont share a relationship with anyone............. its impossible dude!

from the moment we are born we start 2 network------ muma, papa, bros n sis, uncles aunts---- wn v go 2 our school---- ri8 4m day1, v make sm frnds.............. dn it continues to go on and on and on....

the nature of relationships changes, sm break and sm new ones are formed but u r always surrounded by them... nowadays, the basic funda of relationships hv changed. ppl hv become more professional, they only form professional relationships, even the personal ones involve sm sort of benefit (its only then that they exist, else forget it). we are more into diplomacy and tactfulness, we dont want to reveal what v really feel abt the other person... u cannot find any honest conversation where u can straight away say what u feel. u speak only what the other person wants to hear, u fake a smile in front of the person u hate like hell only because u hv sm work 2 do wid him. even if sm1 among ur frnds needs ur suggestion, u sugar coat things n only gv him/her a superficial response tht is just 4 formality....

all of a sudden people change completely once their interests are fulfilled... u r a dumb idiot if u expect people to smile at u once their job wid u is over..... i learnt this lesson the hard way. this is what is suggest to evry other person in this world who is still having the old perception abt relationships n ppl:

"dont expect anything from others.... learn 2 depend on urself......... its better 2 b detached from others than to attach n then being ripped off..... no one is really concerned abt ur emotions.... LEARN 2 SUGAR COAT EACH N EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUT FROM UR MOUTH........"

fake each n every emotion of urs as per the situation........... no one needs ur honesty. grow up!!!!