first pay check!!!!!

August 13 2009: i got my 1st job...... 21 Aug 2009: i joined............ Sept 2009 last week: i got my 1st salary..... my 1st pay check !!!!!

what an amazing feeling it was..... as i tuk it in my hand i had tears in my eyes....... an expressionless idiot like me was displaying emotions at last....... hmmmm felt on top of the world........ it was the 1st  memorable day of my stay @ pilani... my 1st achievement..........

till tht day i hd heard 4m others abt their 1st day @ work, 1st pay check..... i used 2 wonder...." kitne lucky hain yaar!!!!! mera number kab aayega????? " n 2day tht moment had come......n finally i was holding the check in my hand..........i was happy but at the same time i was sad.... really sad..... my sadness was because i didnt hv my family with me right there 2 share tht moment of joy with me...... i cald my mom n told her.... i cald motu, n all d imp ppl in my lyf............evry1 congratulated me.... evry1 was happy.... i njoyd tht moment......i could sense tht happiness in their voice but i culdnt see the happiness....the joy in their eyes........i missed tht so sooo much.....

a few days back wn sm of my frnds gt their 1st pay chks i was reminded of mine....so i thought of sharing my experience here................ really........ 1st job.....1st day @ work..... 1st pay chk........... for tht matter evry 1st thing in ur lyf b it 1st day @ skool or 1st b'day..... these moments r d most spl in lyf...... evergreen moments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why do ppl change????

relationships are the things that are born with us n are a part of our life, till death. u cannot say tht u r alone or tht u dont share a relationship with anyone............. its impossible dude!

from the moment we are born we start 2 network------ muma, papa, bros n sis, uncles aunts---- wn v go 2 our school---- ri8 4m day1, v make sm frnds.............. dn it continues to go on and on and on....

the nature of relationships changes, sm break and sm new ones are formed but u r always surrounded by them... nowadays, the basic funda of relationships hv changed. ppl hv become more professional, they only form professional relationships, even the personal ones involve sm sort of benefit (its only then that they exist, else forget it). we are more into diplomacy and tactfulness, we dont want to reveal what v really feel abt the other person... u cannot find any honest conversation where u can straight away say what u feel. u speak only what the other person wants to hear, u fake a smile in front of the person u hate like hell only because u hv sm work 2 do wid him. even if sm1 among ur frnds needs ur suggestion, u sugar coat things n only gv him/her a superficial response tht is just 4 formality....

all of a sudden people change completely once their interests are fulfilled... u r a dumb idiot if u expect people to smile at u once their job wid u is over..... i learnt this lesson the hard way. this is what is suggest to evry other person in this world who is still having the old perception abt relationships n ppl:

"dont expect anything from others.... learn 2 depend on urself......... its better 2 b detached from others than to attach n then being ripped off..... no one is really concerned abt ur emotions.... LEARN 2 SUGAR COAT EACH N EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUT FROM UR MOUTH........"

fake each n every emotion of urs as per the situation........... no one needs ur honesty. grow up!!!!

Babu samjho ishaare - Hindi Movie Chalti Ka Naam Gaadi (1958)

kishore da rocks.... u r the best

It was during my vacations that i had watched three of Kishore Kumar's superhit movies, tht 2 bak 2 bak. Thanks 2 my dadu, i feel i m so lucky 2 hv such a cool n mast dadu. U r the best. Me, my mom and my dadu watched Chalti Ka Naam Gadi, Half Ticket and Jhumroo... All the three movies were awesome, u can say the complete paisa vasool types. I liked Chalti ka Naam gadi the most, sply thr trio of Ashok, Kishore, and Anup Kumar. U knw all three of them are superb comedians. And, yes of course I love Champion model 1928, the car used by the three... u shuld watch this movie 2 luv champion... u wuld definitely enjoy it..

I was never a fan of hindi movies, but when i watched these movies, i can say that i have become a fan of hindi movies, sply and only the oldies. i guess ppl have to learn a lot from the old movies. even if they were in black n white, but still luk at the songs, the music, the lyrics, and sply the plot. Simple n Beautiful, n Meaningful...

Whoever said it was cent percent correct: "OLD IS GOLD".

I wuld suggest take sm tym out n watch these movies, u wuld enjoy them for sure....

Babu horn pukare, Samjho ishare.... pum pum pum.....